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Do it Yourself Divorce

Do It Yourself Divorce

Do it yourself divorce is a little bit like do it yourself dentistry, or do it yourself  brain surgery. It is better when done by professional. You can save tens of thousands of dollars by using mediation in your divorce and making smart business decisions instead of emotional decisions in the court room. Remember, if you saw the following response in a Google search what would you think?

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You certainly would not respond to this ad. Divorce mediation works

You might say,” wished I was good enough or brave enough to do that, but I  I think I’ll find a professional to do that.  Now that does not mean that I am not going to do some price shopping. I will look for someone who can do the job professionally, who I can trust, and who I know will do it for reasonable amount of money. A do it yourself divorce is not easy, and the results if done wrong may affect you and your ex spouse for the next 40 years. That is a long time to live with a mistake. Just for the sake of asking, let me show you one more ad that I would not reply to and actually get as far away from as possible.

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even worse. This self-help program could kill you, much as do-it-yourself divorce can ruin your life.

To this writer, this ad is a little more dangerous than even the first. This ad carries more severe consequences and additional complications. This ad could lead me down the road to death. In the course of mediating over 25 years I have personally seen many situations where the parties thought they had taken care of all of their issues, but they were wrong. Some of the problems that popped up for minor, some were major. And more than one situation where the parties thought they had divorced each other with do it yourself divorce and the at handle the paperwork himself, they were actually not divorced. The court had rejected their petition for divorce because of inherent errows In their paperwork. And more then one of these cases one or both of these part of one or both of these parties married another individual and actually broke the wall. It is best defined the least expensive way to do this thing called divorce and still have it done my professionals. You can find an experienced mediator who mediates  divorces can help you conclude your divorce remediation, do it professionally, do it legally, and make sure that your divorce is handled in a manner that it will be completed. Divorce mediation can save you thousands know tens of thousands of dollars over what you would spend in litigation and you’ll have no where near the expense. It literally will cost you a fraction of what it would cost you to litigate with two attorneys. If done correctly, divorce mediation allows you total confidentiality less court room time, with or without attorneys, saves you months if not years, and perhaps best of all wars the emotional stress of a court room battle. Your dirty laundry is not hung out just for the all the world to see. Call us today at 800-878-1656 for a free consultation to see if divorce mediation might be for you and most of all might be an improvement over a self handle divorce.